Friday, July 28, 2017

So Many Goodbyes

Our final week in Seattle was filled with more friends and love than we could even imagine.  We are the luckiest people, I'm sure of it, to have such incredibly wonderful friends. I know we will all make friends in Berlin but I'm highly doubtful they will even come close to these amazing friends.  If we didn't see you we certainly wished we had! We will miss you all!!!  Until next time - a big hug and well wishes from Berlin.  We love you!!! 
Monday: 
The Warrens - Liz, Lilly, Henry (and Chad)



Ellis and Josie

Tuesday:
Chase and Kaylen
Benjamin, Hank and Josie
Danette - you should have seen the other photos.  This was the best one!!

Wednesday: 
Semi, Josie, Bini, Benjamin and Amina
Sweet Semi πŸ’•

Thursday: 
Isla, Josie, Benjamin and Callum
Erin πŸ’œ
Fun at Alki with Kristie, Callum and Isla





The Carons - Elif, Maggie, Elliot (and Chad)
With new adorable puppy - Penny!

Friday:
The Morning Crew - Jodi, Pedro, Luciana, Marty

Our beloved Nissan Leaf.  It was a 3 year lease and guess when the lease was up?  Yup. July 29th!  Like everything else about this move it was perfectly timed.  We will be carless in Berlin for the year.  A first for both of us. Thankfully, Berlin has some of the best public transportation in the world. 


Benjamin's first top baby tooth.  It has been dangling for days.  Wonder if the tooth fairy will pay up in Euros or dollars? 
 And saving one of the hardest goodbyes for last - Goodbye Elliott, Sydney, Amanda and Chris.  We are, without a doubt, going to miss you so so much!!   What a perfect match you guys are for our family!  We feel so fortunate that Josie and Elliott met and became fast friends in kindergarten and have been in the same class and built a sisterly bond over the past 5 years.  We love you guys and will miss living so close to such amazing friends!! Please do come visit at Christmas time or any time really.  

Josie and Elliott handled the goodbye with grace.  Amanda and I were a complete mess. 
 It is this friendship that makes me doubt the whole move.  I know they will keep in touch and stay friends and survive the year but it breaks my heart knowing they will be without each other for the year.
 Goodbye West Seattle Junction, Shadowland, etc. etc. etc.



 Goodbye Mexican food.  I hear we won't taste you for awhile.

 And then just to top off our final day in West Seattle we run into the Nelsons at Pecado Bueno.   Goodbye Eva, Mele, Sarah and Stephan. 

Sarah and me - A bit blurry but better than nothing. 
Goodbye WEST SEATTLE!!! πŸ’™πŸ’š

Box Saga Continues

For those of you interested in our shipping box saga it continues. Been on the phone off and on all day with Howard who promises to call right back (never does) promises to send our final bill and address so we can actually pick our stuff up in Berlin (never does) promises to get our forms to the shipping company in San Francisco (never...) you get the point.
I cannot believe how incredibly inept this man is.  We all think he might be mentally ill.  Which I do feel badly about but he should get help and not be in the shipping business or ANY business for that matter.
Yesterday Marty called the shipping company actually doing the shipping and we felt so assured because they told us all 13 boxes were already in San Francisco and ready to go.  They were just waiting on a form from... yep, Howard.
I finally talk with Howard he assures me that SF office has all the forms they need and he will send us the final bill with address in Berlin. Two hours go by. I'm busy with a lot of other things because, you know, I'm moving my family half way around the world and we board a plan TOMORROW! But nonetheless I think I should probably call the SF shipping company just to make sure we are all set to go.  Lo and behold they do not have the forms they need.  They have been trying to reach Howard all day with no luck. They have a very limited window (until 8PM tonight) to get everything in order or it will not ship.
I call Howard back and really let go.  I mean what the holy hell!? Why does he tell me these complete lies?  Obviously he does not get paid until our stuff ships.  What is his motive?  Other than complete mental illness, incompetence, laziness?  We just aren't sure.  So it is 2PM now.  We  (Howard) have/has  6 hours to get everything in order or our stuff doesn't ship.  Then I don't know what happens as we will already be enroute to Germany ourselves.  Deep breaths.  Deep Breaths.  We actually are having quite a good time making fun of him.  Marty's phone rang and Marty says "Oh, it's Kevin" and Benjamin pipes up and says "Well, maybe it's Howard pretending to be Kevin!"  haha.  Will keep you posted.  In the end it is just stuff anyway, right??  GAH!!
Update: Thursday @ 4:30.  Received calls from both Howard and shipping company saying everything is in order.  We got the final bill.  Paid with a credit card (so we are covered if anything falls through) and by all accounts our boxes should leave SF headed for Luxembourg  on a flight tonight at 8PM where they will overnight or two and then arrive in Berlin by Monday.  Still a touch doubtful.  We shall see.

Thursday, July 27, 2017

Update on Boxes

Update on boxes on Thursday 7/27 at 3:30 PM - boxes have arrived in San Francisco.  They are awaiting some forms from Howard.  Go figure!!  But they have arrived and they say they are all set to ship to Berlin. Small miracles each day 😌 Thankful!!

Boxes GONE!!

Well, HUGE news, the boxes were picked up yesterday morning right on time.  I'm still in happy shock about it.  The back story has been quite interesting.  We have been working with this fast talking, East Coast accent, Miami living guy named Howard who is our Shipping Broker.  Back in April when we started the process of shipping our things over to Germany we did some research and figured that we had to use someone in the know as many of the cargo airlines don't work directly with customers so in comes Howard.  In the beginning he was very friendly and talkative - boy could that guy TALK!!  A typical salesman for sure.
We were quite busy with other things in April so we "locked in our price" (I know it is a sales gimmick but it also set my mind at ease knowing we had someone in the know working on our behalf) Then I didn't hear another thing from him once he got our deposit until I had to reach out to him 3 or 4 times in June trying to get him to return my calls or emails.  At first we thought we were ripped off but the deposit was quite small and we paid with visa so we were covered.  We just couldn't figure it out.
After a bit he finally gets back to us, much less verbose, much more down to business but the business part was still just a bunch of run around and not a lot of facts.   At this point we are getting a little worried but we figured, well we still have time.
Fast forward to a couple weeks ago and I'm daily calling or emailing Howard demanding forms that we need to fill out, demanding an actual quote on our updated shipment, demanding to know where we actually will be picking up our boxes in Berlin, demanding to know just the most basic facts.  Last Friday we get what we think we need to box up our things which took us all weekend and a lot of effort but we did it.
So on Monday I call Howard again reminding him that we need shipping labels, insurance to cover ALL OF OUR BELONGINGS and some other MAJOR details for this shipment.  No answer.  No email.  Then, in the afternoon I get a call from a guy named Albert from the same company who tells me he will send the shipping labels and more info and that the truck will be by to pick up our boxes at 9:30 on Wednesday.  YAY!!  I immediately call Marty and we let out a collective sigh of relief.  Wow, we shouldn't have doubted Howard.  he came through.
Tuesday I wake up at 2am and stay awake the rest of the night/morning panicked that this is all a ploy to steal our things.  I look up reviews of Howard's company and more shocking that the couple negative (and a couple positive to be fair) reviews was that there were only FOUR reviews for a company that has been in existence for 4+ years.
I call Howard in the morning, he is very verbose again and at a time where I just don't have the time to listen to him drone on.  I tell him that we still need to know where to pick up our boxes in Berlin.  We still definitely need our insurance certificate before we will let go of our boxes (which contain all of Marty's expensive video editing equipment, computers, screens, etc not to mention all of our favorite clothing, shoes, etc.)  Later in the morning I get a call from a guy who says his name is Albert (the guy I had talked to the day before) and I literally laughed out loud and said "that is funny because this sounds a lot like Howard trying not to sound like Howard!" The guy didn't reply.  Remember I have spent hours listening to Howard talk.  I know his voice.  I have only spoken to "Albert" once the day before but unless they employ two different Alberts it was most definitely Howard trying to act like Albert.  But why??  All day/night
Tuesday I am a complete ball of stress coupled with the fact that I had slept only a few hours I was miserable to be around.  Stress was seeping from my pores, my eyes and unfortunately for my family my mouth.  I was SO stressed.  5PM we call Howard and remind him that we will not let our boxes go without our insurance certificate.  "Oh, of course.  I'll have it to you first thing in the morning"  Marty mentions some customs form that we have been told we need.  Howard's reply "I'm not sure what you are talking about"  This is HIS business.  What the heck?
Wednesday morning Marty and I are nervously trying to figure out an alternative plan to ship our boxes (72 hours before we are actually flying out ourselves. )  Again, not a pretty scene.  Call Howard at 7am and it goes directly to voice mail.  8am call again and directly to voice mail.  Seriously panicked.  What do I do if the courier comes and we haven't received an insurance certificate?  Then Howard calls around 8:45.  "Karrie, Karrie, don't worry.  I'm sending you the insurance certificate right now"  Marty gets it minutes later, verifies that it is at least a legit company (we joked the night before that Howard was going to send us an insurance certificate that he wrote with a crayon!! haha) Marty registers it and then within 20 minutes Scott, the nicest courier , arrives to load up our boxes.  I know I looked a bit like a deer in the headlights when he showed up.  His first question was "is this the Marty Riemer that is the DJ?"  I say yes and he goes on to say he is the biggest Marty and Jodi fan.  He proceeds to VERY carefully load our boxes into his mini van.  He then notices how freaked out I was about it and then he shows me the order for him to pick up our boxes on his phone "so you don't think I'm just some random guy"  Then he gives me a big hug and wishes us well in Germany.  THEN, an hour or so later he calls me just to let me know that our boxes arrived at the shipping center and everything was good to go!!  What a nice guy.  I can only hope that everyone who touches our boxes uses even half as much care as Scott did!!

In addition the kids were picked up by one of our favorite family friends, Semi, who took them along with her two young kids to Seattle Center for a day of wading pool, Dicks Burgers and then a movie.
SO SO thankful for this turn of events which has allowed me to actually breathe peacefully and get so much done for the first time in days.

I got so much done that I actually had time to play a game of Clue with the kids.Things are looking up.  Again, it will be a miracle if our boxes actually show up in Berlin and an even bigger miracle if the computer screens and equipment are not damaged.  Here's to hoping!!


Sunday, July 23, 2017

All Boxed Up

We have had an incredibly busy weekend.  In addition to Josie's party we also were able to get all of our stuff boxed up and ready for shipment.  When we decided to move we wondered how we would possibly be able to pare down our belongings and only take what we "needed". It has been an incredibly powerful, satisfying and exhausting process to say the least.  I started months ago with what I called "skimming the top"  I kept going through the house and just taking all of the low hanging fruit.  It was easy to get rid of so much every week by scheduling the donation truck.  I would just start a pile on the front porch and by collection day I'd have quite a load.  Every time they took it away it felt like I had lost 10 pounds.  Every time I'd go through the house it became more and more difficult to decide, if it should be donated, stored in the basement or brought with us to Germany.
In the end we were able to box up 13 boxes with our essentials.  More than half of these boxes are filled with Marty's computer equipment, video editing equipment, radio equipment, etc.  Also Benjamin and Marty decided that the xBox was "essential" so the whole system was packed up as well, much to Benjamin's EXTREME pleasure.
We each get one checked bag of 50lb and a carry on.  One of the 50lb checked bag has a 20+lb bag of Marty's with his equipment he will need to do his radio show.  And that is it. It actually feels like we are taking too much.  It will feel really good (I'm hoping) to live a lot lighter than we have been.
The boxes are scheduled to be picked up at our house on Wednesday morning around 9AM for an air freight shipment to a warehouse near the Berlin airport. At first we talked about shipping by boat because it was much cheaper but then realized that it would take 6-8 weeks coming AND going and that Marty could not be without his work equipment for nearly 4 months (up to 2 going and 2 coming home) so we decided to ship by air .  Marty and I are a bit skeptical whether this Wednesday morning pick up will actually happen or not.  The cost of shipping is actually very reasonable.  Another one of those "signs" that this was the right time to do this.  However, we have been working with this guy Howard, who although extremely nice, we are wondering if he is trying to scam us.  Probably not and we aren't the skeptical type by nature and it probably is just that this is the first BIG step in our move becoming a reality so we are nervous.  Stay tuned to find out if the boxes were actually picked up or not....  
At the end of our final weekend in Seattle we are feeling emotionally, physically and mentally exhausted.  We know (or we hope) it will all be worth it in the end and keep reminding ourselves that if this were easier then everyone would do it.  But right now we are beat!!  

Going Away Party #2

 On Friday Josie had her own going away party filled with a lot of 10 year old girl excitement and energy.  Almost all of her close friends were able to make it which made her so happy!  Most of the girls were even very kind to Benjamin who did a bang up job of hanging with a group of older girls.  He has energy for miles and sometimes he can just be too much but they all welcomed him into the group.
Marty always says that our kids learn more by example than anything else.  I don't want to take credit for her having such great and discerning taste in friends but I have to believe that because Marty and I have such great friends that she is following our example.  Maybe too much of a stretch?  Perhaps but as we are about to depart on this enormous adventure away from family and friends I'm more appreciative than I've ever been for having the ultra incredible friends and family that all four of us have.
For her party we decided to take a group photo and then have each girl put her name on the photo mat and then the other friends at the party could sign around it - yearbook style.  We also made some stationary and handed out her German address and email and all of her contact information.

The world is so small that with modern technology hopefully she feels as connected as possible to her besties back in West Seattle.  Marty did a fabulous job of getting a group photo which was nearly impossible to get one without at least one of these girls closing their eyes.  Also, one of the girls had to leave early so he had to photo shop one of them in.  Can you tell which one?


Saturday, July 22, 2017

Going Away Party #1

We have the absolute BEST friends.  We really do.  Last Friday we invited them all to our house for a going away party and like true friends, most of them came.  We had over 100 of our favorite faces here in our backyard for a few blissful hours.  It was one of our best parties, second only to our wedding 12 years ago.  It was so fun that we have decided to try throw a yearly party.  Perhaps next year around the same time as our Homecoming Party??

Thankfully 3 of my best friends showed up several hours before the party to help me set up and get everything ready.  I couldn't have done it without them. Thanks again, Christina, Simone and Marjie.
The KMTT Crew










Thanks, friends.  We love you and will miss you.